Whew! Let's talk about it. "You're not in love you're comfortable." That statement can leave you feeling content or uneasy. I don't think people take time to see if their partner is actually being apart of the relationship and not just being comfortable with the service that is being provided by the relationship. Yes, relationships are a give and take type of situation. If you're feeling content, depending on your situation that can be a beautiful thing, because sometimes that's all you need to be happy. It works for you and your partner. You're both satisfied, not seeking more or less. On the other hand if this got you feeling uneasy, then you need to take a step back and be sure you're not settling. I think if you're not in love but comfortable with your relationship both parties should be on the same page, because although you're comfortable at some point someone is going to want more. We know how sometimes people tend to get in relationships for their own selfish reasons like (ex; to have a bed to sleep in at night.) Also sometimes people get into a relationship/situationship and not telling the other person they're not looking for anything long term or too serious their just looking for a someone to have fun with, without a title. Just be sure the same way you are giving out love, compassion, loyalty you are receiving it just as much and you're content with the way things are going. Not being in love and being comfortable is not a bad thing, because who you are most comfortable with is still a win, some people grow old together just being satisfied with their partner.
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